Saturday, April 30, 2011
BEDA #30: last day!
Friday, April 29, 2011
BEDA #29
Thursday, April 28, 2011
BEDA #28: a NSP rally
AHEM.
right. back to srs bsns. Today I went to an NSP rally, mainly to hear Nicole Seah speak. I think everyone else was there to see her speak too. It was such a large turnout! let me find a picture...
http://blogs.todayonline.com/singaporevotes/2011/04/28/photo-supporters-at-nsps-rally/
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
BEDA #27: nomination day
I’ll definitely keep this up, mostly politics and rants, and I’ll talk about not-so-intimate topics. But I’ll take down most of the informal grumpy posts on... May 4th. That sounds like sufficient buffer time. So only the well-structured posts will remain, and even then I might edit them.
I don’t know whether I want to talk about Nomination Day today. There’s nothing much really; just the groups contesting in the different constituencies were confirmed. There’s a walkover in just 1 GRC-- the one Lee Kwan Yew is contesting in-- that’s my GRC, so my household won’t get to vote. This is tons better than the last election in 2006, when there were walkovers in 7 constituencies. All in all, it’s pretty exciting, especially for an ~impressionable~ youth like me. I get to feel that Change is in the air, and there might actually be a chance for the opposition to secure a substantial number of seats.
The papers are saying that parliament hasn’t been this contested since the 1970s, so that’s cool. I’d mostly like to see the PAP majority ended, but even that’s a lofty goal. I’m really impressed actually by Nicole Seah of the National Solidarity Party-- she sounds very formidable in contrast to PAP candidate Tin Pei Ling. And she’s only 24! I can’t wait to see what she has to bring to the table.
After nomination day means that campaigning starts, and the earliest opposition rally I know of is the Worker’s Party rally at Hougang tomorrow night. The political candidates are getting all geared up, and I saw the PAP’s posters in Holland/ Bukit Timah GRC this afternoon. Ah ha. update. The SDP is having a rally at Commonwealth at 7, and the NSP at Marine Parade GRC, near the library. hmm hmm which one to go to? SDP is the one with Wijeysingha, but I also want to hear Nicole Seah (NSP). There will probably be many more rallies to come, so I’ll get other chances. We’ll see.
OH OH OH #8in8 http://music.amandapalmer.net/album/nighty-night is being released under CREATIVE COMMONS :D :D that means we can make music videos :D :D :D I’m so going to do one.
This is more of a note-to-self than anything else: http://ispeaktree.bandcamp.com/
I’ve been consciously avoiding anything remotely leakycon-related-- pottercast, wrock-- for the past few months, because I don’t want to get too excited about going. I’m worried I won’t be able to go, and I feel guilty about having enough money to go. : /
I know So. Many. people who would give anything to get to go, and I just feel so bad being able to go and leaving my friends behind. I don’t want to talk about it, but since nobody reads this blog, it won’t matter anyway. I can’t tell anybody I’m going, but the planning is something I’ve finally got my mum to agree to, and I’ve started booking everything, and thank GOD I managed to get Lit Day tickets before they sold out. #conundrum
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
BEDA #26: the PAP feels the heat.
song of the day: (it is so cute like regina spektor x3) Just press play and it will make you happy.
Today I’ll be talking politics again! Because tomorrow is Nomination Day, the day the candidates file their papers, and we’ll know who’s contesting who in which GRC (group representational constituency). Basically Singapore is divvied up into sections called constituencies, and political parties vie for each constituency. To be honest I’m not sure about the exact mechanisms, so to the website I go! http://www.elections.gov.sg
“For the upcoming General Election, there will be 12 SMCs and 15 GRCs making a total of 27 constituencies and 87 MPs. There are altogether 2,350,873 electors on the registers of electors of these 27 constituencies”
There you go.
Also the wiki page, which my friend says will make you shit brix.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singaporean_general_election,_2011
Basically it just feels-- as in the political climate is feeling really desperate at the moment. The PAP seriously feels threatened by the opposition, I think. On sunday in the Straits Times they did a full-page tear apart of the SDP’s (Singapore Democratic Party) Tan Jee Say’s paper on singapore’s economy, and his suggestions for improvement. Which is basically a position paper, but I lack the vocabulary to describe it properly. Also I don’t want to rephrase “SDP’s/ Tan Jee Say’s”. #grammar
Secondly, on tuesday (today) they make a stupid cheap shot at the SDP’s (I cannot for the life of me remember how to spell his name) Vincent Wijeysingha’s youtube video where he attends a gay rally. I mean, okay, to some voters it makes a difference if Wijeysingha wants to pursue a gay agenda, or if he was gay. But if he really wanted to pursue the agenda, he would have already MENTIONED it by now, since the issue itself generates so much attention. More publicity for the SDP.
The PAP is so afraid that they will lose the vote that they mention things like this. It’s not that I think that it’s wrong to pursue a gay agenda; Wijeysingha totes should-- I’d be overjoyed if he actually did. But to do so is not strategic as it would make one lose a huge percentage of the vote, since most singaporeans are staunchly conservative. Another angle SDP party members are taking is that the fact that Wijeysingha is gay has no implications on his ability to serve. Which is entirely true.
The whole issue just makes me so angry because the PAP is taking this opportunity to talk about 377A, which hasn’t been raised so far, and using it to divide the electorate. To distinguish Us from Them. However, 377A ISN’T a bread and butter issue that concerns most singaporeans. LGBTs in singapore still remain a minority, and being queer myself, I quite frankly am comfortable with the amount of leeway the authorities give us. Repealing 377A would be a good thing, but it would only affect a small percentage of singaporeans. This repealing would also be a symbolic move, which the present government is unwilling to take. It says that the government is supportive of LGBT issues, and it would pave the way for legalizing gay marriage, but given current social attitudes, it is too much to ask.
I think the General Election should be about issues that affect all singaporeans, such as the economy-- housing prices, minimum wage, the government’s allocation of resources-- and not about controversial issues that are only brought up to attract attention.
The third reason why I think the PAP is desperate, is that they’re making Lee Kuan Yew contest in the Tanjong Pagar GRC. The PAP is quite literally pulling out the stops. That dude is famous and all, but what about the statement where they said LKY was just going to act in an advisory role? How much can he do, now that he’s semi-retired and is 87 years old? He’s been in power since 1965, and had political influence a few years before that. That’s almost 50 years. If singapore wants to call itself a developed country, it should have a fair and just government to match. No other developed country has a leader in power for this long. And his SON is contesting in Ang Mo Kio GRC to boot. The PAP should have faith in its current lineup of candidates, and not have to play this card just to be confident that they can win the vote.
I’ll update tomorrow, and probably end up blogging for longer than BEDA.
[interruption: I’m listening to #8in8 and it is surprisingly good for the short time they had and I don’t want to spoil it so I’m listening the rest tomorrow and then tomorrow I will wax lyrical about it, so you guys might have a bonus blog; the 8in8 blog and then the nomination day blog. yeah. run on sentences ftw.]
Monday, April 25, 2011
BEDA #25: Walking With a Ghost review
“Walking With a Ghost”-- The White Stripes
Being exceedingly familiar with Tegan and Sara’s version of “Walking With A Ghost”, I was I had high expectations with this cover. On first listen, The White Stripes’ version sounds discordant and screechy. On subsequent plays, I found that the instrumental breaks added character to the song, and I enjoyed the guitar riffs and tuning. This version has a harder, grittier feel.
The live version of Same Boy You’ve Always Known has a distinctly acoustic feel, which tends to be absent from Walking With a Ghost. The ordering of this song after the first provides a contrast which highlights its acoustic, bare-bones nature.
In As Ugly As I Seem, vocalist Jack White whispers softly into the microphone. The recording sounds intimate and quiet, as if he was playing to a living room, rather than an entire stadium. Using live recordings for this EP makes the emotion that is conveyed in these songs all the more tangible and real. It feels like Jack and Meg White are playing to a group of people and speaking directly to them, as if I was being directly acknowledged.
The Denial Twist begins with a guitar riff and screechy vocals that are reminiscent of early AC/DC tracks. This is my introduction to The White Stripes, to be honest, so I’m new to their style of music. It was interesting to observe Jack White’s versatility and range of emotion, from the emotional Same Boy You’ve Always Known to the old-school rock style of this song.
Screwdriver, too, reminds one of old-school rock. The White Stripes carry off the attitude that comes with this music with aplomb. Meg White more than makes up for the lack of other instrumentation with drumming that synchronizes perfectly with Jack’s guitar. “You need to know the difference between a father and a lover” has traces of Freud, but obviously, taken in context, has a feminist tone.
I have to admit, I only bought this CD because of this one track. Other reviews compare The Kills to The White Stripes. I’ve only heard The Kills’ Midnight Boom, but to put The White Stripes in the same boat would be a mistake, as they sound nothing alike, beyond the initial male/female duo arrangement.
Sunday, April 24, 2011
BEDA #24: The Tracey Fragments
Saturday, April 23, 2011
BEDA #23: babies
Friday, April 22, 2011
BEDA #22: book club musings
Thursday, April 21, 2011
BEDA #21
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
BEDA #20: sexysexy
BEDA #19: My Scars
hey!
My internet is being slow at the moment, and I’m waiting for youtube videos to load, so I thought I’d blog. See how much of a PRIORITY you guys are?? ;D
The last time I did BEDA properly 2 years ago, I thought it was worth it because then I got to read maureen johnson’s, hayley’s, and kristina’s blogs for the whole month. But now that I have 2781 unread posts on Google Reader/ Gruml (thanks, Lee!) I have too many blogs to read, because of my numerous subscriptions. So I don’t think BEDA is a reciprocal thing anymore.
I’m at the point in the month (and almost 2/3 of the way through) that I’m beginning to feel that BEDA is a chore; and that I don’t really want to blog; because I don’t have anything interesting to talk about. I’m probably sure that you don’t want to hear about my day, analyzed to 800 words. While I don’t think I’m running out of prospective topics, I’m running out of motivation and topics that might actually be OF INTEREST to you, as opposed to rantrant feminism! rant posts.
Hum. Also I’m not sure how much information to release onto the internet. On one hand, more people read my tweets and watch my videos, but not as many (read: 3) regularly pursue this blog, so I’m fine with sharing things, since I actually know you. I am safely cloaked in anonymity! On the other hand, one is always warned to err on the side of caution whenever one is releasing information on the internet, as anyone can access this information, and use it to... steal your MONIES, and other insidious activities. That’s partly why I’m a little wary of sharing my day with you.
pssh whatever. Let’s move on.
I’ve been thinking of getting a tattoo or a piercing for some time now, and it’s kind of funny because I don’t have any piercings whatsoever. xD I have the same number of orifices in my body as the day I was born! I don’t even have earholes. I do have a lot of scars, though. Ok since I don’t have any piercings, I’ll tell you about my scars:
1) Scar on lip, from when I fell off the bed when I was 7 and bit my lip. I think I blacked out, because I just remember falling off the bed and the next moment I was sitting upright with my mum holding me. My granddad said there was a pool of blood; it was GORY.
2) Scar on my right shoulder, from when my sister bit me when I was 7. We were fighting. We were really rough, I remember. On a separate incident, I gave her a scar on her chin in return.
3) Tiny scar on my left hand, when I bumped into something in the dark after turning the lights off before I went to bed. I didn’t notice the cut until I woke up in the morning. I was 16.
4) Scar on my bum. (yes, I DID say I was going to talk about ALL my scars. :P) Nothing sexy, though, it was from when I was a baby and getting my vaccinations.
5) Scar on my right knee, from when I made myself fall out of the car onto the concrete, just to spite my sister. I think I was about 11. This injury really hurt, and I remember it being excruciatingly painful just to change the band-aid. The wound was quite deep as well. Lesson (not yet) learnt: it doesn’t pay to do anything purely out of spite! My sister was blissfully unaffected by this.
6) Scar on my right heel, from when I was 10. I was at a friend’s birthday party, and someone suggested the game of “grounders”, which is like Tag, but the other rule was that you couldn’t touch the ground. Or that it was easier for you to get tagged while on the ground. I can’t remember. Being the crazy kids that we were, not touching the ground meant that you could climb on ANYTHING, beyond the usual playground equipment; we climbed on the parapet and on top of walls that were as high as we were. I got hurt falling from a wall. My friends panicked, because there was a lot of blood, but I don’t remember it hurting too much. They got scared and stopped playing. This wound took a really long time to heal-- it was angry and red for quite a few months. Now it’s a raised bump on my heel.
Tell me about an interesting scar you have. BATTLE STORIES, people.
Monday, April 18, 2011
BEDA #18: Clothes, mostly.
Sunday, April 17, 2011
BEDA #17
Saturday, April 16, 2011
BEDA #16
Today’s blog post won’t be so much of a blog post as much as a lack of blog.
Does that make sense?
I reached home at 1am tonight, and I’m tired. I don’t even have anything constructive to talk about today, and I still have to go back and purge twitter of my tweets.
hum. I don’t know. From a business perspective, it’s very stupid of me to #livetweet from awkward social situations, because it displays my irresponsibility and fleeting attitude for everyone to see. If I wanted to maintain my online presence as a very professional platform on which to display my work, then all crazy tweets would have to go, 70% of BEDA has to go, some of dailybooth has to go. People won’t want to talk to me about paying me to do anything, because on twitter I seem like this crazy alcoholic who likes to stay out late a lot.
Friday, April 15, 2011
BEDA #15
Thursday, April 14, 2011
BEDA #14
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
BEDA #13: happy days are here again
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
BEDA #12
Monday, April 11, 2011
BEDA #11: a song
Sunday, April 10, 2011
BEDA #10: politics-- the PAP
Saturday, April 9, 2011
BEDA #9: a rant
Friday, April 8, 2011
BEDA #8: My agenda for the week
Thursday, April 7, 2011
BEDA #7: queer studies books
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
BEDA #6
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
BEDA #5: Marriage advertisements are annoying. Part 1.
Hi guys.
I guess my BEDA posts are going to be like: “I think THIS of THIS” and not like “My day was awesome/ crappy.”
So y’all have to stay around and listen to ME on my soapbox :D
so. Relationships. This post is inspired by EveryoneIsGay.com: http://everyoneisgay.com/post/4339060926/how-do-you-know-when-its-time-to-let-a-relationship
It’s undoubtedly a personal issue, but I see no problem discussing it on the internet with the barrier of screens and keyboards and quasi-anonymity!
This issue has been bugging me of late. Bombarding me from all fronts, if you like. There are reminders everywhere: facebook statuses, friend’s partners, friends’ relationship woes. Even local radio stations don’t stop talking about LOVE and Marriage Convention 2011. (Which is a real thing actually, and there are all these het couples in the newspaper advertisements. I am sick of reading the local news and sick of listening to local radio not just because of the advertisements, but of the quality of broadcasts... but that’s for another blogpost.)
And to provide context, the Marriage Convention isn’t a “no to same-sex partnerships” thing, it’s organised by the singapore government as a “have more babies” thing.
The idea of same-sex civil unions hasn’t even fully entered the public consciousness yet; Section 377A of the penal code is still in place, which criminalizes sexual relations between two men.
I think it’s just demeaning that our society/ or government has decended to a point where our personal romantic relationships become the GOVERNMENT’S business. While the declining birth rate is an issue, it isn’t the *only* issue that political leaders have to deal with right now, nor is it the most pressing, in my opinion. At least, I don’t think it’s pressing to the extent that the government has to create its own dating agency.
Case in point: “The vision of the new SDN (Social Development Network) is to facilitate marriages and nurture a culture where singles view marriage as a top life goal.” Excuse me? MARRIAGE as a top life goal? I can’t even.
It’s not a big enough issue to feature in the upcoming elections, but it just irks me personally, and I’m not quite sure why. I did make a video about this 2 years ago, and it probably is a crappy one, but you can watch it! I have no idea what I said in it. It is also probably very ranty, because its duration is 6:39. I did do some editing though, and I look stupid, but. Enjoy:
Yeah, watch that, or not watch that, while I figure out why I get so annoyed. To be continued tomorrow!
In the meantime, you should check out Sanne’s BEDA :D http://booksandquills.blogspot.com/
Monday, April 4, 2011
BEDA #4: Makeup
I almost forgot today’s BEDA entry.
I don’t have anything in particular prepared for today, though. What should I talk about? Don’t worry, today’s entry won’t be as verbose as yesterday’s, obviously.
Hmm. Recently I’ve started my foray into MAKEUP. The dreaded thing that society imposes on young females. Though speaking of females, I think some guys could really do with proper skincare. Have you noticed the proportion of males with greasy faces vs the proportion of females?! It’s partly the fault of biology, but us women have shiny faces as well, and most of us *do* something about it.
Also if men are more prone to higher levels of oil production, shouldn’t they do more to prevent breakouts and the like? Actually using facial wash would be a start. Guys don’t like to get zits either. They could move on to a skincare routine-- men’s facial products are becoming more easily obtainable nowadays. There’s even guy concealer and guyliner. And those brows, people! Tame them, especially if you have a unibrow. (I’m starting to sound like Liane.)
I sound like I’m arguing that looking good is a public service-- that someone is doing it for the sake of other people. I do think that getting dressed up for formal events and looking presentable is a social requirement, especially if you’re doing it for work. (Incidentally, have you noticed that the grooming requirements are stricter for women then men? Women have to put their faces on and worry about their hair, and even their wardrobe combinations. Men just put on a shirt and pants, and run some gel through their hair. No need to worry if their outfits are suitably contemporary or if their makeup is running, or if their feet hurt from the heels. It is arguable that it is optional for women to put their faces on or wear heels, but at a networking session, first impressions are vital. A lady wearing a dated suit might be prematurely judged by a client for being out of touch with current trends. But a man who sports a traditional combover and is wearing an ill-fitting suit isn’t judged by the same standards. The combover might be a sign of seniority, or might signal that the person is better able to relate to senior executives.)
But on a regular basis, sometimes spending more time on one’s appearance might make one feel better. By pretending that you look good, even though you feel like you woke up on the wrong side of the bed, can help you convince yourself that you don’t feel so bad.
Makeup is a contentious subject. Initially I boycotted it, like a feminist would burn bras. I felt that it was a socially imposed requirement, and refused to conform.
Until I discovered that makeup makes you look OLDER. xD
But really, sometimes makeup is like a mask that I put on to convince myself that I look better than I actually do. And in the case of prom, when I dressed up as amanda palmer, makeup was the mask for me to be someone else. Because I wasn’t myself, I could do whatever I wanted. It was a tool for me to act like I couldn’t normally, and gave me courage to um... wear minimal clothes in public and sport drawn-on eyebrows. YEAH.
So. Discussion questions.
Do you wear makeup? If yes, do you wear it all the time or some of the time? (I only wear it when I’m with friends. :P)
Do you think that makeup is a product of current societal ILLS? That it is a DECADENT LUXURY?
Do you think that guys should wear makeup?
fire away. :D